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A love–hate relationship is an interpersonal relationship involving simultaneous or alternating emotions of love and hate—something particularly common when emotions are intense.〔Eric Berne, ''A Layman's Guide to Psychiatry and Psychoanalysis'' (1976) p. 86〕 The term is used frequently in psychology, popular writing, and journalism. It can be applied to relationships with inanimate objects, or even concepts,〔http://news.cnet.com/8301-19882_3-10281561-250.html〕 as well as those of a romantic nature or between siblings and parents/children.〔M. A. Skura, ''Shakespeare the Actor'' (1993) pp. 286–7〕 ==Psychological roots== A love–hate relationship has been linked to the occurrence of emotional ambivalence in early childhood;〔Sigmund Freud, ''On Metapsychology'' (PFL 11) p. 137〕 to conflicting responses by different ego states within the same person;〔Eric Berne, ''Sex in Human Loving'' (1970) p. 222〕 or to the inevitable co-existence of egoistic conflicts with the object of love.〔Freud, p. 137〕 Narcissists have been seen as particularly prone to aggressive reactions towards love objects,〔Jacques Lacan, ''Écrits'' (1997) pp. 24–5〕 not least when issues of self-identity are involved:〔R. D. Laing, ''Self and Others'' (1969) p. 110〕 in extreme instances, hate at the very existence of the other may be the only emotion felt, until love breaks through behind it.〔Neville Symington, ''Narcissism'' (2003) pp. 85–6〕 Research from Yale University suggests love–hate relationships may be the result of poor self-esteem.〔http://www.scienceblog.com/cms/the-mystery-behind-love-hate-relationships-10767.html〕 抄文引用元・出典: フリー百科事典『 ウィキペディア(Wikipedia)』 ■ウィキペディアで「Love–hate relationship」の詳細全文を読む スポンサード リンク
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